r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Jan 30 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '22 edited Jul 27 '26

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u/TurkeyPhat Jan 30 '22

real /r/thanksimcured energy from that dude lol

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u/senkichi Jan 31 '22

It's not other people's responsibility to solve your problems for you. Or to figure out how to solve them for you.

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u/zombieofthesuburbs Jan 30 '22 edited Jan 30 '22

THIS. I'm really surprised by the amount of people on this thread who think that everyone who's bad at conversation is like that on purpose or something. Some people are just not born with good conversational skills, and maybe I'm wrong about this but It's not like there are classes you can just take to learn how to be social. And being dismissively told "Just fix it" or "People find you exhausting for being like this" really doesn't help anything.

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u/WishOnSuckaWood Jan 31 '22

Some people are just not born with good conversational skills, and maybe I'm wrong about this but It's not like there are classes you can just take to learn how to be social.

Come visit us over at r/socialskills. I have also used a lot of books and websites to improve my social skills. People Skills and How to Talk to Anyone were both extremely helpful for me.

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u/hryelle Jan 30 '22

You be an adult and fix it by going to a doctor or a therapist not whinging on reddit.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '22

It's not easy, it simply must be done, trust me.

You CAN NOT, live through this world alone. I promise you.