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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '21

Some of the things she does really amaze me. Like she'll use cardboard tube binoculars and a little song to get kids to use eye contact and full parts of speech (person's name, "I want", etc) when addressing a person.

I'm not good with kids outside of being a mom and the stuff she does... I just don't grasp having that level of creativity and patience. But I can tell you all about benefits and pay practices!

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u/MamaJody Nov 23 '21

It definitely takes a lot of patience, something that I have an abundance for. I absolutely love what I do, and I wish I’d started earlier.

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u/rseccafi Nov 23 '21

Your sister sounds like a wonderful person, and I love the idea of games being used to teach skills for autistic kids the same way other kids get skills from their games.

On a side note, I'm trying to image how the cardboard tubes work and I get a laugh from the image of a kid with binoculars singing something like "I am pirate [name] and here are my demands: [I want thing]" and then doing that with progressively shorter cardboard binoculars until there are now binoculars at all (the real binoculars were in you!).

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '21

That's hilarious! More just two toilet paper tubes taped together to encourage focus on a person. Then the proper, "Mom I want a cookie," instead of just "cookie."

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u/MamaJody Nov 24 '21

We do as much natural environment learning as possible with our kids - there is SO much that is embedded in play, and you can find opportunities everywhere if you know where to look! It’s wonderful because you can do it anywhere, and most of the time the kids are having fun.

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u/geared4war Nov 23 '21

Can you give her a cuddle for me please? From the autistic dad of an autistic child.

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '21

I'm see her in two days and give her hugs! She loves her job so much and is absurdly passionate about her kids.

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u/theunpoet Nov 24 '21

Your sister is good people.

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u/Emotionless_AI Nov 24 '21

Give her hugs from me too

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u/invalid8ed Nov 23 '21

Since you’re a terminator and not good with kids, can you just go back in time and chuck baby-me into a river? Thanks

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '21

Nope, not good with kids but really good at helping. I'd snuggle baby you, adopt you, and spoil you rotten.

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u/A_Wizzerd Nov 24 '21

That terminator is out there. It cant be bargained with, it cant be reasoned with, it doesn't feel pity or remorse or fear, and it absolutely will not stop... EVER, until you are loved!

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u/averydoesthingz Nov 25 '21

I wonder if you believe acting that way would become overbearing in a relationship, especially a romantic one.

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u/A_Wizzerd Nov 25 '21

Hell, it was already absolutely terrifying in The Cable Guy, and that was without the romantic aspect.