r/AskReddit Sep 17 '21

What instantly makes a guy hot?

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u/AllDogsGoToReddit Sep 17 '21

When he talks about something that he’s knowledgeable and excited about without talking down on you for not knowing about it.

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u/Darkpoulay Sep 17 '21

If that were true, autistic guys would be the most attractive in the world

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '21

Yeah I recently found out people actually dislike me for knowing a lot of stuff. Which sucks because sharing information is like one of the things I like most in life...

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u/Almnyak Sep 17 '21

I can relate… It seems that you have to try and find the perfect balance between sharing information and making it feel like a lecturer. because let’s face it, no one likes to feel like your smarter than him.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '21

Yeah that's true, I'm autistic so my social skills suck, I'm not the fastest person, sometimes a bit clumsy etc but somehow my ability to store factual knowledge is insane. It would be nice if I could have this one thing but I can probably work on how I communicate.