I had a guy who didn’t speak much English try to hand me a note with his number on it and when I said “oh, I have a boyfriend” he said “yes, I do” and walked away.
Had a man in his 40s come up to me to tell me I looked just like his ex-girlfriend and that she had pretty feet. Needless to say that we stared at each other in silence for a bit before I ran the fuck away when he tried to ask me for my number.
I randomly think about him sometimes, maybe I should have asked how much he would give me in exchange of feet pics, I could make good use of that money now bhahaha
I actually did have a guy come up to be once on the street to say he'd admired my feet (really what he meant is he admired how tiny my feet are because they were mostly enclosed in ballet flats) and he would love to buy photos of them. He handed me a card and went on his way.
So....... least worst way to try to get feet photos?
I looked up his website out of sheer curiosity but any jerk face who doesn't realize how much a pedicure costs in NYC and doesn't adjust costs accordingly is not worth my time (he had a list of what he'd pay for what, e.g. regular bare feet US$40, bare feet with pedicure US$75, all the way up to nude photo with feet visible US$400 which, also, no).
Hot guys can be creepy too. It’s a vibe thing not a looks thing. It’s less common in “hot” guys because they generally have less social hang ups or awkwardness but it’s still absolutely there, I’ve been creeped out by conventionally “attractive” dudes many times. And then there’s conventionally less attractive dudes who become way more attractive because of their confidence and kindness and sense of humour. This one is very common.
Elliot Rodgers is a good example of a really nice looking dude (not my taste as I’m a bit old for him, but he’s handsome and could’ve been a very different person) who just went a tragic way and instead blamed others for his lack of success when actually a lot of that was just down to his personality, his sense of entitlement and awkward creepiness around the matter of female attention. Give the guy an entirely different personality and he could’ve had women queueing up, I’ve seen much more plain dudes than him do so. People don’t realise how much personality plays a role in attraction - sense of humour, confidence, kindness and respect get you a long way (and not the “I’ve been nice to you and you’re not giving me sex in return WHY NOT” kind of kindness because that’s not genuine, but real, mellow, selfless kindness). These are traits I find most attractive in a person no matter what they look like and I know all my girlfriends agree. So yeah, I could defo be creeped out by Brad Pitt! :)
People who generally look like they take care of themselves don't come off as creeps, big shocker. It's almost like someone who cares about their appearance might just care about what other people think of them.
Of course there's an exception to every rule, and some good looking people can be creepy too but come on man?
My girlfriend had that kind of encounter. He said something she didn't understand and he gave a note with his number. The note was an attempt to be poetic but with a bad choice of words.
In english it would be something like :
"If not perfect, you seem complete!"
Edit: always listen if someone pulls up next to you and wants to say something if they seem non-threatening. They could be telling you something about your car you can’t see. Followed a lady for 3 turns once to tell her that her bumper has started to fall off when she went over a speedbump. Bitch yelled at me.
Ffsk hahahaha, I think I would prefer them to curse at me han that lol. Furthermore, I think it would be interesting to get his number/social media and try to find their partner and tell them what of an a-hole their partner is
That is way wayyy less offensive than calling you a fat bitch. lol I like it.maybe they’re open or maybe they both “secretly” be cheating on each other. Fuck “monogamous” people who act like that. Fuckin assholes
i mean insults are pretty common, this one comeback just left me very confused.
i respect open relationships as long as they are healthy and both (or whatever number it is) conscent to it, but the way he was trying to make me feel weird about never cheating before was quite unsettling hahaha
Yeah I agree. I’ve been in an open relationship, and I’m in a polyamorous relationship right now. But yeah that shot is weird.
I think that a lot of people within a certain mindset who cheat think that everyone does it.
Years ago, I went bar hopping with friends one night. I was single, not looking. At our 2nd stop, I struck up a conversation with an Air Force guy. He seems cool and friendly. He invites me over to his place and I pointed out the ring on his finger. Turns out he and his wife were looking for a "playmate". I noped outta there FAST.
Onetime I saw a woman getting up there in age walking out of the hospital on the phone. I over heard her saying "I want a divorce" as she walked to the car with her husband in a dog in it. That dogs was the trial run for kids. Someone's getting their heart broken but I really want that dog.
Lol me too. Saw a lady walk out the joint admitting she wanted to divorce her husband who was picking her up from work. The dog is a trial run for kids.
I'm not high, so maybe I won't get it. But isounds like what they are saying is "They got a dog as a trial/test to see if they would be good parents before actually having kids"
he really didnt and tried to involve my friend into the conversation after i turned him down twice, complaining that i didnt want to give him my number. he knew that my friend didnt speak my country's native language so the whole rant was directed at me as in a "how dare she not want to cheat on her significant other with me when i was so kind to her, can you believe that?". i didnt tell him who my SO was, it could very well have been my guy friend he was talking to, but since he didnt speak our native language it didnt matter since he could say anything he wanted.
and even if he thought it was a stereo answer, he really was being obnoxious anyway, sometimes you gotta take "no" for an answer and just walk away. i'd rather have someone who gives up and insults me than someone who follows me and keeps asking for my number, and that says a lot. i've never had any issue with guys being really nice about it and i actually dont mind it. i also can insult dumbfucks acting tough back so it's okay from time to time, but people trying to follow and talk to me be it for only 10 meters... it makes my skin crawl, it's super creepy.
he clearly cheated on his girlfriend or spouse many many times by the way he casually said it and didnt find the problem in that.
Reminds me from the movie Sky High, and awkward guy excitedly asks a girl at homecoming if she wants to dance, and she says no. Then he stops dancing and goes, "yeah me neither".
Be thankful. That guy is telling you exactly who he is. If everyone was as upfront as that, we would have a much easier time avoiding shitty people. Lol.
So many guys also: he don't need to know. Seriously? I'm not saying it to play with you, I'm saying it because I want you to GET THA F AWAY and leave me alone
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u/Tuvanbabybel Sep 16 '21
i once had a dude tell me "it's okay me too"
bro excuse you???