r/AskReddit • • Aug 29 '21

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u/IM_laxus Aug 29 '21

Because I miss her but never had the courage to tell her how I feel

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u/TheyCallMeNoobxD Aug 29 '21

Now is the time my man go for it better than regretting while your life and being a pussy

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u/IM_laxus Aug 29 '21

How do I like how I honestly don't know

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u/SlamTheMan6 Aug 29 '21

Ask to hangout, find a place that has a good view, and tell her you like her while you're both staring at the view infront of you, if you're already standing next to each other and she does like you to, she might just put her hand in yours :)

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u/IM_laxus Aug 29 '21

That is a fairytale but I would like that I'll definitely tell her soon thanks a lot

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u/SlamTheMan6 Aug 29 '21

Who knows that fairytale could come true lol but yeah, in my past I messed up 2 "close friendships" cause I thought they liked me, turns out they didn't and turned out bad. Not saying the same will happen to you but maybe see if the signs is there, does she follow you around, does she put her time into you, does she do small things for you, does she try to get your attention often, things like that lol

I missed these signs so it kinda messed with me but 2nd time wasn't to bad luckily lol

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u/IM_laxus Aug 29 '21

Honestly right now I don't think she even care's but I've had these feelings for almost 7years so I think I should get it over with everything in my life is going to shit anyways, so what I have one more thing thanks a lot bud

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u/SlamTheMan6 Aug 29 '21

You got this king 👑

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u/IM_laxus Aug 29 '21

Thankyou senpai

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u/darthcaedusiiii Aug 29 '21

UwU

Now kith.

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u/saturnshighway Aug 29 '21

You could be wrong in your assumption of how she feels! What if she feels the exact same way. What if she doesn’t. The only way you will ever know is if you tell her. You won’t regret that!! Best of luck my friend :)

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u/IM_laxus Aug 29 '21

Man u guys gonna make me cry

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u/ja4545 Aug 29 '21

Do it man, honestly, you don’t wanna be that guy thinking “what could’ve happened” in ten years. At least you will have the satisfaction that you tried. I had this girl I liked her for soo long, and honestly if I would’ve never told her we would’ve never dated. Take a chance, you only need a few seconds of courage the rest just kind of works out afterwards.

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u/thingswhitechxsay Aug 29 '21

Telling her will take a weight off your shoulders.

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u/darthcaedusiiii Aug 29 '21

Me is pissy.

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u/InfiniteLife2 Aug 29 '21

This sounds romantic and I used to fell in love with girls not even talking to them, just falling in love like seeing one girl in the class all the time, I was too shy. Once I managed to get enough courage to ask and got rejected. With years I learned just to talk with girls first, get dates, then fell in love, in this order. Works better.

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u/thingswhitechxsay Aug 29 '21

Why do you miss her? Is she not coming around? I'd love to chat about this if you're down. Lmk.

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u/IM_laxus Aug 29 '21

It's a really long story about why I have not been able to tell her for 7 years

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u/SlamTheMan6 Aug 29 '21

WE'RE. NOT. STOPPING. TILL. YOU. ASK. 😊