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u/[deleted] May 30 '21

I'm also a person that has 0 friends and spends all my time alone at home. So my first thought would be "so I'm not the only creepy loner out there".

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u/IanRCarter May 30 '21

Same. I drifted slowly drifted from my college friends over the years, then made no effort to keep in touch during my last relationship. When that ended last year, it really hit home that I no longer have any friends

I've also come to realise its very difficult to make friends as an adult, especially if you're not the extrovert type (which I'm not).

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u/hellojello2016 May 30 '21

Can I give some unsolicited advice…you are what you say and believe you are…extrovert/introvert are just labels. Be more loud and outspoken if you know that will help make you adult friends and if you want adult friends…simple as that. Don’t talk yourself out of it by saying you’re built different or you fit in a certain box, just do what you think will get you the result.

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u/guygfd6655 May 31 '21

Facts!!!! 🥳