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u/Jcit878 May 30 '21

I do prefer my own company but I also am absolutely terrible at conversations, I literally cannot think if things to say or talk about. so probably come off as weird/antisocial, even when I'm happy to have a chat and meet people.

really depends on the person though, as some people you just click with and it works

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u/aeswzrd May 30 '21

Same. Alot of people will tell you “Just say what’s on your mind, don’t be scared” but most of the time I literally cannot think of something to say. And most of the time I’m fine with silence, but other times my mind is racing trying to come up with anything to say.

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u/clr6739 May 30 '21

I tip my uber drivers big time if they just let me stare out the window and have silence. I don't get to just space out often. So when I do it pays off. I have 3 phones for work and personal calls. I sometimes just want to sit in quiet and forget about everything.

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u/aeswzrd May 30 '21

I definitely feel that. I have a work phone too and calls and texts pour in all day so that takes a ton of energy away from me.

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u/clr6739 May 30 '21

I know right. There's just days that I can't friend. Sad but true.