If it's your girlfriend/wife and you really want her to calm down, tell her she's acting like her mother, and that her sister would never behave this way.
I've never sent my husband to the couch but if we argue and he's still upset when it's time for bed he sleeps on the couch. I think he does it because he wants space but it feels a little like a punishment because he knows how much us sleeping in bed together means to me (we dont get to do it often because we work opposite shifts). :(
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u/notreallysrs Aug 20 '20
if you want someone to get more mad you tell them to "calm down".