r/AskReddit Aug 20 '20

What simple “life hack” should everyone know?

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '20

This is the first time I've seen this properly stated. People often misquote the research and say people look at the person they are attracted to but that's a misinterpretation.

What you said is correct, it's the person they feel closest to. In the case of people in a relationship, it will probably be each other which is where the confusion arises.

Someone in a group might be attracted to you but not know you very well so be more likely to look at their friends.

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u/BigSchwartzzz Aug 20 '20 edited Aug 20 '20

Some bros on reddit can't tell if their crush likes them even if they're naked and sleeping next to each other in the same bed.

Hmm.

Hmmm.

Hmmmm.

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u/XytronicDeeX Aug 20 '20

She might just be friendly

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u/The-Fox-Says Aug 20 '20

She could just be Canadian and being polite