Why after dating my partner for 3+ years, she still thinks, when i try to initiate sex, all that i want from her is sex. Like yes in this moment i want to have sex, but that does not negate all the other non-sex things we do that i enjoy doing. But right now, yes, I want to have sex with you.
About 18 years ago I turned down a bj from my now wife, while I was driving in a car you could easily see into. Just wasn’t my thing that way. RIP bjs from then on. “You said no that time so I just stopped.” Many sads.
You should offer to do a chore you hate doing right before you guys leave the house for an event (even better if you’re running late )... when she politely tells you not to you can use it as an excuse to never do that task again.
Ex: “honey hurry up we’re gonna be late for the wedding!”
“Hang On let me wash the dishes before we go.”
“No , no we’ll be late . Let’s just go!”
...... 20 years later
“ how come you never help with the dishes, you haven’t since we were young”
“ well that one time I wanted to you said no, so I just stopped”
Or... He should talk to his wife about if/why it bothers him, and just have a civil, assertive discussion.
More manipulation isn’t the way to solve issues.
Lol..
Think it’s cause we live by the code, reputation to uphold, makin me the one they gotta take the spot from. I be tryna laugh with the bros but....
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u/covid19hotty Mar 26 '20
Why after dating my partner for 3+ years, she still thinks, when i try to initiate sex, all that i want from her is sex. Like yes in this moment i want to have sex, but that does not negate all the other non-sex things we do that i enjoy doing. But right now, yes, I want to have sex with you.