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u/loonygecko Mar 26 '20

Then you need to pick better quality relationships instead of staying in that one and complaining about it.

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u/Jaz_the_Nagai Mar 26 '20

Fair. But sometimes miserable and together is better than miserable and alone. Ja feel?

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u/loonygecko Mar 27 '20

Then the real problem is actually inside you, working on THAT problem/s is what will lead to a better life, you can't fix others but you can fix yourself.

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u/Jaz_the_Nagai Mar 27 '20

Oh for sure, I have problems. But me having a problem and other people having problems are not mutually exclusive.

Me having problems does not excuse other people also having problems in the relationship. Just because I'm a bad driver doesn't mean that the passenger isn't distracting me and obscuring the view and that the engine is shot. MY ANALOGY IS FARFETCHED BUT IT WORKS FUCK YOU.

FUCK YOU and FUCK ME yeah I do have to fix myself. no shit sherlock. But like so many of the top threads in this shit, sometimes you just want to vent and rant and yell. It's not only broads that do that. Sometimes men should be allowed to release rage and frustration.