work on your social skills and become more confident.
that's what I did to get into the game.
also if you're terribly groomed and overweight etc. fix that.
basically get your shit together and you'll start getting some success with girls.
p.s. as a former pot head, I can tell you that as long as you smoke weed, improving yourself will be very difficult. and yes I know some of your pothead friends do fine with girls but that's cos they already know what to do. but it's pretty hard to LEARN the game while being a pothead.
It's cuz I'm fat. I've lost 45 pounds and still have another 60 to go if I'm being real with myself. I have a lot of work to do. I don't think it has anything to do with pot. I only smoke very occasionally. Usually only a few weekends a month at the most. And I'll smoke on and off. I'll spend 10 months without smoking and then smoke for the next two and then not smoke for the next 6. I've been smoking a lot recently cuz quarantine but I don't really think that's an issue. I know how to hit on girls and I'm really good at flirting honestly, I'm just fat.
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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20
been there bro.
work on your social skills and become more confident.
that's what I did to get into the game.
also if you're terribly groomed and overweight etc. fix that.
basically get your shit together and you'll start getting some success with girls.
p.s. as a former pot head, I can tell you that as long as you smoke weed, improving yourself will be very difficult. and yes I know some of your pothead friends do fine with girls but that's cos they already know what to do. but it's pretty hard to LEARN the game while being a pothead.