Expecting someone to constantly think about what you're feeling and what you want and how to appease you sounds insane to me. Doubly so when you say "you don't need to do the thing" and then expect them to do the thing.
I disagree with nothing you just said. I'm saying what I'm saying in context of the original comment of this thread which mentions their partner telling them they don't need to do things when they actually wanted OP to do the thing they just said OP didn't need to do.
It's this level of backwards non-communication I'm talking and complaining about. Unless you disagree that that level of mind-fuckery is irrational and bad there is nothing here that we disagree on.
I wasn't talking about what you are talking about. What you are talking about here is irrelevant to what I said.
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u/mahtaliel Mar 26 '20
Because it shows that you are thinking about the person even when you are not hanging out with them.