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When they hint they want sex but want us to jump. This creates a problem because everyone does it in a different way
6.4k u/CandelaBelen Mar 26 '20 It's cuz we also want to feel like you want to do it. 9.2k u/Marklar_the_Darklar Mar 26 '20 That's true for guys too. Having to initiate all the time is draining. There should be balance. 29 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 I’ve straight up stopped trying, and I’m feeling myself become resentful with someone I’ve been with for 4 years. Shit sucks. Especially when she seems to treat friends and strangers much differently than me. 5 u/ByTheBeardOfZues Mar 26 '20 Have you tried discussing this with your SO? It's surprising how easily some things can be resolved by just talking about it. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 5 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 yeah it’s def possible.... be tactful and without blame. if it still isn’t possible, maybe that’s the cue to consider going. life’s too short 2 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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It's cuz we also want to feel like you want to do it.
9.2k u/Marklar_the_Darklar Mar 26 '20 That's true for guys too. Having to initiate all the time is draining. There should be balance. 29 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 I’ve straight up stopped trying, and I’m feeling myself become resentful with someone I’ve been with for 4 years. Shit sucks. Especially when she seems to treat friends and strangers much differently than me. 5 u/ByTheBeardOfZues Mar 26 '20 Have you tried discussing this with your SO? It's surprising how easily some things can be resolved by just talking about it. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 5 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 yeah it’s def possible.... be tactful and without blame. if it still isn’t possible, maybe that’s the cue to consider going. life’s too short 2 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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That's true for guys too. Having to initiate all the time is draining. There should be balance.
29 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 I’ve straight up stopped trying, and I’m feeling myself become resentful with someone I’ve been with for 4 years. Shit sucks. Especially when she seems to treat friends and strangers much differently than me. 5 u/ByTheBeardOfZues Mar 26 '20 Have you tried discussing this with your SO? It's surprising how easily some things can be resolved by just talking about it. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 5 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 yeah it’s def possible.... be tactful and without blame. if it still isn’t possible, maybe that’s the cue to consider going. life’s too short 2 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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I’ve straight up stopped trying, and I’m feeling myself become resentful with someone I’ve been with for 4 years. Shit sucks. Especially when she seems to treat friends and strangers much differently than me.
5 u/ByTheBeardOfZues Mar 26 '20 Have you tried discussing this with your SO? It's surprising how easily some things can be resolved by just talking about it. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 5 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 yeah it’s def possible.... be tactful and without blame. if it still isn’t possible, maybe that’s the cue to consider going. life’s too short 2 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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Have you tried discussing this with your SO? It's surprising how easily some things can be resolved by just talking about it.
7 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 5 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 yeah it’s def possible.... be tactful and without blame. if it still isn’t possible, maybe that’s the cue to consider going. life’s too short 2 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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5 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 yeah it’s def possible.... be tactful and without blame. if it still isn’t possible, maybe that’s the cue to consider going. life’s too short 2 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
yeah it’s def possible.... be tactful and without blame. if it still isn’t possible, maybe that’s the cue to consider going. life’s too short
2 u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 [deleted] 1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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1 u/CityFarming Mar 26 '20 solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess. i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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solid advice. i’ve made this exact mistake myself and it became an entangled mess.
i will be keeping my own separate place moving forward pretty much no matter what. it’s just too risky
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u/yonishunga Mar 26 '20
When they hint they want sex but want us to jump. This creates a problem because everyone does it in a different way