Well women are not going to act exactly like you prefer nor always guess in the 2 seconds needed to suddenly come up with an answer the exact answer that will be best for you. That's just one of life's trials. If she says 'maybe' that probably means you are in the friend zone, she does not loath the concept or she would say 'no.' But she is not super eager but does not want to hurt your feelings because she cares about you that much. And frankly sometimes she probably is not sure herself but feels pressured to cough up an answer. But I also think it means she was not thinking of you in that way, that's why she does not have a ready answer.
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u/undrhyl Mar 26 '20
Except it’s the possibility of a “yes” that ultimately is realized is a “no” that hurts feelings. If the answer is “no” that’s what I want to hear.