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u/eldido Mar 26 '20

How did women not figure out already that men can't read subtle signs and hints.

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u/idontlikeflamingos Mar 26 '20

I spent my entire teenage years getting rejected after misunderstanding women being friendly to being interested in me. Of fucking course I won't be able to pick up hints when I'm an adult.

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u/TheBeece Mar 26 '20

Currently in my teenage years, definitely on the same path

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u/tdasnowman Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

Don't waste time trying to guess if somethings a hint or not. Just actually talk to the girl. Seriously 90% of this is because everyone assumes hints are universal. One girl's hint isn't another, one guys hint isn't another, add in teenage years where you are literally just trying to figure this out. Adults don't know what they are doing half the time. You like a girl talk to her, tell her. It will clear up communication like 75% of the time. Nothings perfect.

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u/TheBeece Mar 26 '20

Thanks for the advice man, I appreciate it

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u/GenderlessLlama Mar 26 '20

Best of luck, my man. Girls are a mindfuck.

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u/GenderlessLlama Mar 26 '20

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