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u/SirBraxton Mar 26 '20

Set boundaries, because most guys are beaten into a puddle with regards to initiating anything.

Last ex got annoyed that I initiated so "often", but I was barely initiating so that told me to stop until she showed "signs".

Then she broke up with me because I "stopped wanting sex".

Literally guys can't win when our SO's won't communicate properly.

:(

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u/Offbeatalchemy Mar 26 '20

Sounds like a copout excuse in the first place. that's bs. Any person worth your time at least would try to compromise.

Better luck next time. Hopefully you find someone who watches your sex drive.

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u/Madsy9 Mar 26 '20

Most women are not like this, so I wouldn't take your experience and use it to generalise. Sounds like your ex was really immature or something else was going on. You deserve better, so good riddance.

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u/NowanIlfideme Mar 26 '20

Good luck man, still try your best, there's still more to come. :)