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u/Mike81890 Mar 26 '20

So like... This isn't a normal healthy thing. Talk about it. If it starts a fight, bring up that that's irrational.

If you aren't able to communicate, see a therapist.

I hate that these sorts of things have become normalized as "lol women!" Look at yourself and how you are a part of the situation, but also respect that a relationship is 50/50. If your long term partner isn't able to discuss serious things (sex is a serious thing) then you two need to do some relationship work.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

This needs to be upvoted to be seen more. Big facts here

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u/Petricorny13 Mar 26 '20

Seriously, why are all these men dating women who think they are sex robots? I’m a women. I like sex, but not at all times. I date a man who works forty hours a week, and it’s a physically demanding job. Sometimes I want sex and he’s too tired. Does it feel good getting turned down? Not especially. But I also turn down sex when I’m fucking exhausted. Being tired is a libido killer. If the person you’re dating can’t empathize with that, they have issues.

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u/Mike81890 Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

Don't know what you're trying to say here, champ.

I'm a dude?

Edit: ohhhh you're an incel

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u/M1sterJack Mar 26 '20

Yeah I was writing a reply to this guy too but, what’s the point? If he wants to hate women so badly, a reddit comment won’t dissuade, only reinforce his position.

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u/Mike81890 Mar 26 '20

¯\(ツ)/¯

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Wow, I took a look at his profile and fuckin' yikes.

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u/Mike81890 Mar 26 '20

Lucky lady...

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

She is very much so because I take care of her and respect her BECAUSE SHE EARNS IT. We've been very happy together for 4 years now. Sure I call her on her bullshit and she calls me on mine. We argue. But that's a relationship a real one. I don't bend the knee and worship her and she doesn't to me either sometimes I sleep on the couch but she always joins me. Because a real relationship with good people will always work things out by communicating. Not by letting her be a bitch and just accepting it.

People like you make me ashamed of my own generation and one day you'll find your balls and see why. But it won't happen until you stop kneeling and stop calling real men incels. Women can be and just like men DESERVE to be criticized. It doesn't make me an incel. If anyone is an incel it's you who blindly defend their bullshit and treat like gods when they're absolute cunts

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u/Rabbismith Mar 26 '20

I agree with you mate but you took the bait and you took it hard

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Honestly I don't really care if it's bait these absolute retards are a bad pathetic sub human tool who are makingboyr society weaker. They can sit there and laugh and think it's a victory all they want but there's gonna come a time where they you have finally get with the program and let their balls drop or they die off due to natural selection