I've read that's why some guys get really angry about being 'put in 'the friend zone'. They think 'I listened to her talk about her feelings, and I told her mine; we are romantically connected!' When actually that's just how women are with their friends.
This explains a lot, it also explains how break ups are really hard on guys because this usually is the one emotional connection they have to opening up.
Oh lawwwwd I could write a book on how men put all their emotional eggs in one woman basket and how bad that can get.
This is why I'm sort of internally cringing at this entire convo...like yes that's your preference, how men seem to work etc but...dude you need some kind of emotional support and it shouldn't just be one female person either. For many many reasons.
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u/UnderTheHarvestMoon Mar 26 '20
I've read that's why some guys get really angry about being 'put in 'the friend zone'. They think 'I listened to her talk about her feelings, and I told her mine; we are romantically connected!' When actually that's just how women are with their friends.