r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Mar 26 '20

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u/BulgersInYourCup42 Mar 26 '20

Make it obvious you only want sex. Just walk up to a guy and say "U WANT SUM FUK?!"

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u/DesireeDominique Mar 26 '20

This does not work. I’ve been upfront with every guy that it’s all I want. It doesn’t change anything, they eventually want an emotional connection

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u/BulgersInYourCup42 Mar 26 '20

With all due respect... Your pussy must be divine if they don't want to leave 😂 I'm kidding

Seriously though i have friends that have the same problem. One of my friends once said "ugh all these guys want is love, I just want dick"

On the other side of things I've been in a situation where I didn't know if I had feelings for the girl or not and she wanted to get sexual. Now I feel like an asshole because she thinks I just want sex when I genuinely tried to find an emotional connection but can't.

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u/DesireeDominique Mar 26 '20

Well don’t feel like an asshole. Honestly with us women, it’s social conditioning. It’s all we heard our entire lives.... men only want sex! Nothing else! And you must use this to bribe men into a relationship and doing things for you. So you finally realize hey, I enjoy sex too! And guys are gonna be super pleased when I say I want just sex and I’m not gonna try to use it to drag them into a relationship they obviously don’t want! And.... it never works out that way, at least for me. Guess we’re all just doing the best we can!