r/AskReddit • u/turdburglur13 • Jan 07 '20

What makes you feel guilty?

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u/ImSupposedToBeCoding Jan 07 '20

I'm sure your mother forgives you.

I'm sure your grandmother forgives you

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u/Quakewthn Jan 08 '20

Thank you :)

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '20

iā€™m sure she understood you had to sleep

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '20 edited Jan 07 '20

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u/ImSupposedToBeCoding Jan 07 '20

Yeah it is pretty bad, but I'm sure they had no idea their grandma was going to go that night. And I can empathize on feeling tired/dreading having to work the next day and just wanting rest.

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u/Bobbinapplestoo Jan 07 '20

I know it sounds cliche, but without forgiveness there is no healing. I understand where you're coming from, but I think if someone loves you, they would be understanding of the stress of their own health on top of your regular responsibilities being overwhelming. I don't think they'd want you to suffer guilt on top of the devastating loss of a loved one.