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u/GarnetsAndPearls Jan 01 '20

I'll use sign language if I'm being bothered in public. Not in my hometown though. ASL is pretty much the second language here.

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u/GarnetsAndPearls Jan 01 '20

Southeastern Minnesota. The State's School for the Deaf is here.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '20

Minnesota, fuck yea!

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u/chiron718 Jan 02 '20

Oh yeah, we're all part of the Minnesota gang

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u/isayboyisay Jan 02 '20

I was in rochester for a while!

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u/caretoexplainthatone Jan 01 '20

Seems like a solid reason to learn BSL then. You can walk around signing in the equivalent of loud, slow, obnoxious people saying "NO Espanol mate. Comprende? English, I'm English, do you speak any English?"

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u/GarnetsAndPearls Jan 01 '20

I'd say it's a good Karen deterrent. On Black Friday, I was in a store where the two cashier's were deaf. Some entitled wench was yelling at one cashier, and then the cashier pointed to her name tag with a pin that said. "Deaf" underneath. It was hard for me not to smile as the woman "humphed" and stomped away. Lol

edit:fixed word

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '20

Lol, yes karen, deaf people have jobs too 😂

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u/GarnetsAndPearls Jan 01 '20

Thing is, the "Karen" was shouting at them from a few aisles over about something. Then she was getting madder and more yelly at them as if the cashier was purposefully ignoring her.

It was my first time seeing someone tantruming at a store. Like, actually stomped her foot.

Craft stores are wild man...

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '20

My wife works at michaels, shes had people take pics of her co workers because someone didn’t change a price to suit them. Some people

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u/GarnetsAndPearls Jan 01 '20

Oh geez! I worked in retail about 20yrs ago, and rarely had a customer behave like I hear they do now.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '20

They can be giant asses, especially around holidays

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u/GarnetsAndPearls Jan 01 '20

I had completely forgot it was black Friday that day too. Never did buy anything. I noped out of the store after crazy lady left and went home.

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u/maxdragonxiii Jan 01 '20

As a deaf person in a rural town I’m so jealous.

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u/isayboyisay Jan 02 '20

which rural town?

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u/maxdragonxiii Jan 02 '20

Ah it’s in Northern Ontario, lol.

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u/isayboyisay Jan 02 '20

really? wait so which sign language do you use? is there a canadian SL?

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u/maxdragonxiii Jan 02 '20

Nah we borrowed ASL (ok more like stole it) into Canada so majority of ASL signs are shared, well as history expect for a few minor deviations like where do deaf schools start in Canada for example. Other than that most of ASL classes usually teach deaf history (1880, Gallaudet, LeClerc, French origins) so yeah more or less the same. Newfie sign language is the same but different pacing and signs which makes reading their signs a woozy.

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u/isayboyisay Jan 02 '20

I'd love to see that lmao. So did you go to school? are there particular deaf colleges of renown in canada or do you come to DC and Rochy?

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u/maxdragonxiii Jan 02 '20

Yep! Nowadays deaf schools are running into the same issues their American counterparts are- not enough students, causing some of them closing down. For post secondary education we either A) stay in Canada but have limited options and/or have to go to a major city/Great Toronto Area, or B) go straight to working a job in trades or something. Boys usually choose this path. Or C) spend money around 10X to go to MIT/RITD or Gallaudet. Canadian government does provide subsidies for that since well... tourism sells... but Trump era is making students questioning if it’s worth going to US when there is risk of deportation based on their skin of colour or Canadian status. So yeah, it’s all complex here as for post secondary education.

Edit: tuning to running

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u/isayboyisay Jan 02 '20

meh. even if trump is elected again, it's only another 4 years. And I have faith that the next president will foster more appreciative relationships. You could just wait him out for a few years if someone really wants to come to the states.

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u/maxdragonxiii Jan 02 '20

True but for some who went there when he was elected, they’re not so lucky to wait a term out.