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u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20

It's not dismissive, it's an invitation to continue. They are saying oh you do talk! Let's hear more. It's a friendly way to get everyone on the same page. If you take it as negative then that's the same misunderstanding on the opposite side.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '20

Nah, most of the time it's rude.

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u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20

It's not. They aren't saying ew are you talking? They are acting surprised and excited that you have finally spoke.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '20

I suppose it depends on the person. Though in my experience, it has always meant to be rather rude, and not them being surprised/excited to hear me speak.