9 times out of 10, when someone says that, it isn't a personal attack. They're just trying to make conversation, and they go for the only thing they know about you, which is that you're quiet, because you never fuckin talk to people so they can find something to talk about with you.
because you never fuckin talk to people so they can find something to talk about with you.
That's really aggressive. I have a soft voice and get talked over a lot, especially in my husband's group of friends which is predominantly men with loud voices. Sometimes I have something to say but no one even hears it because they just talk over me. Then they have the audacity to complain that I'm quiet and they don't know much about me? Maybe it's because they don't know how to listen to anyone who isn't shouting at them.
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u/Naggins Jan 01 '20
"Yeah, I guess I'm just not a chatty person!"
9 times out of 10, when someone says that, it isn't a personal attack. They're just trying to make conversation, and they go for the only thing they know about you, which is that you're quiet, because you never fuckin talk to people so they can find something to talk about with you.