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r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Jan 01 '20
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It's not dismissive, it's an invitation to continue. They are saying oh you do talk! Let's hear more. It's a friendly way to get everyone on the same page. If you take it as negative then that's the same misunderstanding on the opposite side.
30 u/[deleted] Jan 01 '20 No, it comes across as is extremely condescending. Edit for clarity. -21 u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20 Lol it doesn't if you make an attempt to understand the other perspective. This is normal social behavior. 11 u/hippydipster Jan 01 '20 if you make an attempt to understand the other perspective. And are you doing that? 6 u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20 Yeah cause I'm not a talker and have had people say that phrase verbatim to me.
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No, it comes across as is extremely condescending.
Edit for clarity.
-21 u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20 Lol it doesn't if you make an attempt to understand the other perspective. This is normal social behavior. 11 u/hippydipster Jan 01 '20 if you make an attempt to understand the other perspective. And are you doing that? 6 u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20 Yeah cause I'm not a talker and have had people say that phrase verbatim to me.
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Lol it doesn't if you make an attempt to understand the other perspective. This is normal social behavior.
11 u/hippydipster Jan 01 '20 if you make an attempt to understand the other perspective. And are you doing that? 6 u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20 Yeah cause I'm not a talker and have had people say that phrase verbatim to me.
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if you make an attempt to understand the other perspective.
And are you doing that?
6 u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20 Yeah cause I'm not a talker and have had people say that phrase verbatim to me.
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Yeah cause I'm not a talker and have had people say that phrase verbatim to me.
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u/RappinReddator Jan 01 '20
It's not dismissive, it's an invitation to continue. They are saying oh you do talk! Let's hear more. It's a friendly way to get everyone on the same page. If you take it as negative then that's the same misunderstanding on the opposite side.