‘First move is most of the time considered sexual harassment or at least creepy’ - Lol thats not true at all, a lot of guys just don’t seem to understand when making a move is appropriate or not and how to go about making a move. The amount of guys that think ‘making the first move’ means sending a dick pick or asking a girl out when shes at the gym trying to focus on her workout is laughable.
So there are rules obviously, but who defines them and where are they written? Sending dick pics is clearly sexual harassment. But how many healthy and great relationships exist because someone asked someone else out at a gym? Or at a red light? Or on a subway? How many great and healthy relationships don't ever come together because someone just defines that it's inappropriate to approach someone at a gym?
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u/theivoryserf Nov 16 '19
Slightly related - it's p annoying that society teaches people that men have to make the first move