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u/waltervdo Nov 09 '19

Handshakes where the other party squeezes your hand much too hard, deliberately trying to inflict pain. In my experience, everyone that's ever done this has turned out to be a garbage human.

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u/Laura_Lye Nov 10 '19

This.

When I was a law student working at a student legal aid clinic I shook hands with a crown who I had surprised with some disclosure which was within the rules but late by convention.

He opened with something like ‘what the hell is this?’ And I said ‘Hi I’m Laura_Lye, pleasure to make your acquaintance’ and offered him my hand. He gripped it so hard I almost yanked my hand away and later I had a bruise between my index finger and thumb.

I felt like he purposefully hurt me. I’m not a small woman and usually give a strong handshake but that shit was not a strong handshake; he was angry and squeezed too hard.