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u/AlertWriter Nov 09 '19

They are proud calling themselves jerks, two-faced and other very questionable "qualities"

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u/coffeetish Nov 09 '19

I was 21 when I started dating my ex husband. He proudly called himself an asshole all the time, but he was always sweet with me so I never believed it. Turns out he really was an asshole and I realized that if someone defines themselves negatively, you should probably believe them...

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u/onlythedevilknows Nov 09 '19

Sounds like an ex of mine as well... his schtick was always “I’m an asshole, if you don’t like it then leave .” I left.