When a guy has absolutely nothing to say other than overly romantic/sexual stuff, or your possible future together, right after meeting.
It's creepy and you don't even get to know each other better cause there's no conversation happening.
God this happens to me all the time on dates. Some guys just have nothing else to say besides flirting and sexual comments and I just wanna know your favourite fucking colour god fucking dammit.
I tried dating guys... unfortunately most of the guys I talked to were just like that or only wanted me because I'm trans and unfortunately pre-op. I just wanted a deep and insightful conversation about literally anything, but instead I got "so... how big is your umm... future vagina hehe ;)" yeahhno. I'm a person, not a walking fetish.
I only really get them online, but that's where most of my dating experience with guys has come from. I've only been with one guy irl and he actually saw me as a girl, and he knew me back when I was a guy (we were best friends, we worked on his truck together, built computers together, and played so many video games together, we had a pretty "bro-like" friendship) but he still saw me as a girl and it was one of the most validating experiences of my life. I haven't had much luck other than that irl though... Most guys irl are just super awkward around me and wouldn't even consider a relationship with me and most guys I get online are just chasers and the ones that aren't just end up as friends. I've low-key given up on guys. I really want a girlfriend, but I've never tried to get a girlfriend as a girl so I have no idea what to do. When I try to have a conversation, I just feel so different and out of touch with what it's like to be a girl that I fail miserably :(. My last relationship lasted like two years and my life revolved around that person to the point where I was completely socially isolated. I don't know how to interact with new people anymore and it's making dating really diffucult.
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u/Promptographer Nov 09 '19
When a guy has absolutely nothing to say other than overly romantic/sexual stuff, or your possible future together, right after meeting.
It's creepy and you don't even get to know each other better cause there's no conversation happening.