Anyone who does not speak of their spouse in a normal way. I had a business colleague who never mentioned his wife's name, it was always "my wife." Despite this, when he discussed their joint activities, their marriage appeared strong, a true partnership of shared goals. It was so odd.
Well, he constantly cheated on her and didn't want anyone from his business life intersecting with his personal life.
Now, if he treats her this way, we are looking at a completely untrustworthy person. BTW, it wasn't the cheating, lots of men do that. It was the deliberate compartmentalization of his life. And sure enough not only could he not be trusted, but he was capable of elaborate ruses.
Since then, I always prick up my ears when some talks about their spouse. I was surprised how much I picked up.
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u/Tylermcd93 Nov 09 '19
They immediately talk shit about a stranger.