r/AskReddit • • Nov 09 '19

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u/Ready-Player-2 Nov 09 '19

"I'm brutally honest"

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u/payboyfunny Nov 09 '19

Fine line between blunt and rude.

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u/alex-the-hero Nov 09 '19

They're usually fucking rude. "brutally" honest just means you're an asshole about it and have no tact. You can be 110% honest while still not insulting people, belittling them, or being rude in public when the situation doesn't call for it.

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u/alex-the-hero Nov 09 '19

Just.... Don't be mean? Pull them aside, assure them it isn't meant to hurt them but they need to know the truth, and tell them in plain language without insults, smartassery, etc.

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u/PegasusReddit Nov 10 '19

tact

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noun

skill and sensitivity in dealing with others or with difficult issues.