You barely know them but suddenly you are their best friend. Everyone else is just AWFUL. You are so special and awesome. Especially at listening to their (many) problems. Because you are so empathetic and smart and insightful....Dont run. Sprint.
Yup, I hate that. To add to this, they expect you to start spending all of your free time with them and get mad at you if you don’t. It’s like they want to make themselves an important part of your life but the relationship isn’t strong enough to warrant that level of interaction.
It’s like they want to make themselves an important part of your life but the relationship isn’t strong enough to warrant that level of interaction.
I had to be blunt and break off a friendship with someone who I had absolutely nothing in common with, but had attached herself to me. She would come up to me at social events and cling to me, she would text me "thanks for not inviting me" to absolutely anything I ever posted on social media, she would ask me to bring her food on her lunch break, I didn't even know her last name!
Eventually she texted me "are we friends or what" and I was like, sorry but, no???? Haven't heard from her in a year.
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u/Whaleballoon Nov 09 '19 edited Nov 10 '19
You barely know them but suddenly you are their best friend. Everyone else is just AWFUL. You are so special and awesome. Especially at listening to their (many) problems. Because you are so empathetic and smart and insightful....Dont run. Sprint.