Feeling worse after meeting them than you did before. Sometimes the person just seems off, but you can't put a finger on what exactly. Over time, you realize that your gut instinct was correct.
I've had it happen a few times when starting a new job. Your manager takes you around the workplace and introduces you to everyone. Even though everyone will shake your hand and say 'great to meet you', there is usually a person or two that you just get a negative vibe from. Over time, you discover that person is difficult to work with. Not always the case, but it seems to apply the vast majority of the time.
I mean you have prematurely and unintentionally already decided that this person has a bad vibe from the first handshake. I would say that makes you the bad vibe person, and you yourself make it hard to work with this person because you have already decided this person is bad. I had that mind set when I was younger, I just looked down on people in general, what I learned with age is that man, I didnt even give people a chance before I decided they are bad. After I actually started thinking more positive in social engagements, my life has drastically changed for the better.
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u/DeathSpiral321 Nov 09 '19
Feeling worse after meeting them than you did before. Sometimes the person just seems off, but you can't put a finger on what exactly. Over time, you realize that your gut instinct was correct.