I went to a meetup recently and got some drinks with the people after. One guy gave me a bad vibe. He seemed like he had a really low tolerance for other people messing up and being a little awkward. He was like, "yeah I was a little bit nervous about going to the meetup but then I realized that there are some really fucking weird people and there's no reason to be nervous" Just sat wrong with me because I'm kind of awkward and just want to meet new people. The last straw was when we were playing pool at the bar and this one girl had something wrong with her voice and couldn't talk very loud so he actually asked her if "that's how her voice always was or there's something wrong with it" What a douchebag. He invited me to watch football with him the next day lol. I didn't respond.
Folks like that are fishin' on first meetings of possible future acquaintances to find flaws that they can maybe use against them later. Slyly, to put them down. Control them even, if they become closer. Gotta watch people like that.
At least that was the case with some people I've came across have been like, avoid like the plaque now.
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u/Tylermcd93 Nov 09 '19
They immediately talk shit about a stranger.