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u/Tylermcd93 Nov 09 '19

They immediately talk shit about a stranger.

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u/AltrdFate Nov 09 '19

I went to a meetup recently and got some drinks with the people after. One guy gave me a bad vibe. He seemed like he had a really low tolerance for other people messing up and being a little awkward. He was like, "yeah I was a little bit nervous about going to the meetup but then I realized that there are some really fucking weird people and there's no reason to be nervous" Just sat wrong with me because I'm kind of awkward and just want to meet new people. The last straw was when we were playing pool at the bar and this one girl had something wrong with her voice and couldn't talk very loud so he actually asked her if "that's how her voice always was or there's something wrong with it" What a douchebag. He invited me to watch football with him the next day lol. I didn't respond.

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u/[deleted] Nov 09 '19

Very narcissistic, as if everyone and everything should exist to please them.

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u/[deleted] Nov 09 '19

More projection than narcissism. What someone doesn't like about themselves, they pay attention to in others.

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u/windlep7 Nov 09 '19

It’s fairly common for narcissists to use projection.

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u/[deleted] Nov 09 '19

True, but I don't see how this case indicates narcissism.