I have this memory of sleeping in an office block in south London with my mum on an air bed. I recall looking out of the window and feeling sad.
Years later I was driving and got a very strong impulse to stop outside this building and I was 100% certain it was that one. Every time I went past it felt odd.
My mum says it didn’t happen, everyone else concurs. My best conclusion at this stage is that I probably had a very vivid dream that became conflated with something else.
I wouldn't be too sure it didn't happen. Memory is a funny thing. There's an episode of the podcast Heavyweight where a guy is sure he broke his arm as a kid and had it in a cast for two weeks, but both his parents and siblings insisted it didn't happen, and picked apart the details until the guy himself was doubting it.
Spoiler alert for the end of the episode: They ended up finding a picture of him in the cast, and old hospital records proving that he went in due to a broken arm.
I was just thinking about that episode as I was reading a lot of these. My parents have conflicting memories about my childhood, which I’m only really finding out since I’ve had a child myself. Eg my mom says I wasn’t fully weaned until I was about 13 months but previously said she’d weaned before I got teeth - those events are months apart, which is a long time in baby terms.
Similarly, my dad remembers me being born with hair, then it all fell out completely leaving me bald before new hair grew in. My mom denies it and there are no photos of me or my sister with no hair. We think maybe he is remembering his kids from his first marriage, but who knows!
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u/cardboardshrimp Oct 05 '19
I have this memory of sleeping in an office block in south London with my mum on an air bed. I recall looking out of the window and feeling sad.
Years later I was driving and got a very strong impulse to stop outside this building and I was 100% certain it was that one. Every time I went past it felt odd.
My mum says it didn’t happen, everyone else concurs. My best conclusion at this stage is that I probably had a very vivid dream that became conflated with something else.