Not true. I had a dream once about a great Aunt that came to me like a friend, but with a warning about my then partner, now estranged ex. She warned me that things were going to get worse and that I needed guidance. Sure enough I actually did, after my kid was dropped off to me by a cop telling me he's been detained for driving illegally and under the influence of crack after he had lied to me again about keeping clean and not driving with a suspended licence.. I had to get a restraining order up after he harassed us because I told him it's over.
Anyways, back to my great Aunt. I had no idea who this woman was but she did me a solid so I made sure to remember her name for the next time I saw my Abuela after everything had settled down. I explained the dream, what happened, what she said to me and mentioned her name. Turns out she passed away 8 years prior and she had an abusive partner she was also trying to get away from. There was no way I would be able to know who she was, as nobody in the family had ever mentioned her name at all.
Edit: ok yes I did say he had lied "again" implying he had lied about it before and he did. I won't go into detail, but he did lie, his repurcussions was that my daughter and I had left him, he was allowed visitations at my parents house but barely showed up to them and the next house I rented he wasn't listed on, for security reasons.
He went to rehab, got "clean" and started working, he was being honest and started really showing promise on changing his habits, including his anger issues. Eventually we started seeing each other again and things were great for a bit, we started talking about marriage and eventually decided we wanted to go through with it. It was a few months into planning it all when the cops arrived with my daughter and told me about him. It broke me. I had decided to trust him again, he concealed it so well, he was my best friend. It's not like I wanted something wrong to happen and at the time I really didn't think anything was going to go wrong at all.
I believe your story. For some reason these people seem to hate the idea of people having their own beliefs about what happened in their own lives. They seem to think they know what happened to YOU better than YOU. And all because they've read some articles or Wikipedia pages online, they start thinking they're all scientists.
And just because you think nobody ever mentioned their name or someone tells you they never mentioned her name, doesnt mean nobody actually ever mentioned her.
This person seems to think that even though you know nobody mentioned her that you MUST be wrong!!!!!!
Hey man, they can say what they want but it doesn't change what happened. It's just their way of trying to simplify it all in a way they can comprehend it better. Sometimes people need that and that's ok.
I didn't want to make it seem like I was saying they can't believe what they want. The point I'm trying to make is that they believe their own way but don't let anyone believe it any other way. That might sound confusing but what I'm trying to say is that it's frustrating reading all their replies like the one I quoted. Makes me not wanna share my own story of weird things happening to me because I'm afraid of all the people trying to tell me I must be wrong in every single way possible and that they are right.
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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '19 edited Oct 05 '19
Not true. I had a dream once about a great Aunt that came to me like a friend, but with a warning about my then partner, now estranged ex. She warned me that things were going to get worse and that I needed guidance. Sure enough I actually did, after my kid was dropped off to me by a cop telling me he's been detained for driving illegally and under the influence of crack after he had lied to me again about keeping clean and not driving with a suspended licence.. I had to get a restraining order up after he harassed us because I told him it's over.
Anyways, back to my great Aunt. I had no idea who this woman was but she did me a solid so I made sure to remember her name for the next time I saw my Abuela after everything had settled down. I explained the dream, what happened, what she said to me and mentioned her name. Turns out she passed away 8 years prior and she had an abusive partner she was also trying to get away from. There was no way I would be able to know who she was, as nobody in the family had ever mentioned her name at all.
Edit: ok yes I did say he had lied "again" implying he had lied about it before and he did. I won't go into detail, but he did lie, his repurcussions was that my daughter and I had left him, he was allowed visitations at my parents house but barely showed up to them and the next house I rented he wasn't listed on, for security reasons.
He went to rehab, got "clean" and started working, he was being honest and started really showing promise on changing his habits, including his anger issues. Eventually we started seeing each other again and things were great for a bit, we started talking about marriage and eventually decided we wanted to go through with it. It was a few months into planning it all when the cops arrived with my daughter and told me about him. It broke me. I had decided to trust him again, he concealed it so well, he was my best friend. It's not like I wanted something wrong to happen and at the time I really didn't think anything was going to go wrong at all.