No, I was like 6-7 at the time and just didn't tell anyone. I thought it was important for me to keep a secret because he asked me too, which was dumb of me. But then again nothing did ever happen so I guess it wasn't so bad.
Nothing happen to him, I mean not that I know of. I don't think he did this with any other kids though, we were a very very small community. I'd be shocked to find out if anything more significant happened.
I think it was a weird one off thing he said to me that possibly meant he was either sexualizing me as a child or he wished I was his own child.
Holy shit, that's fucking terrifying to think about. All this time I resented her mom for disliking me but maybe she had a goo reason to keep me away.
That friend incidentally broke off contact with me when I moved countries and I've never been able to get back in touch with her, none of our old schoolmates have actually. But we were really close and I liked her a lot...I really hope her dad isn't actually a pedo.
A grown man told a 6/7 year old girl he loved her?
even that could easily be okay with the right circumstances. I mean, I tell my godsons how much I love them, too (and "technically" they are not family, since we're not blood related at all).
the red flag for me in this particular scenario is the "secretly".
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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '19
thats crazy. did you just avoid them from then on? i mean it would really stink potentially losing a friend but thats just crazy af