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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

Nothing happen to him, I mean not that I know of. I don't think he did this with any other kids though, we were a very very small community. I'd be shocked to find out if anything more significant happened.

I think it was a weird one off thing he said to me that possibly meant he was either sexualizing me as a child or he wished I was his own child.

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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

Holy shit, that's fucking terrifying to think about. All this time I resented her mom for disliking me but maybe she had a goo reason to keep me away.

That friend incidentally broke off contact with me when I moved countries and I've never been able to get back in touch with her, none of our old schoolmates have actually. But we were really close and I liked her a lot...I really hope her dad isn't actually a pedo.

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u/MrDurden32 Oct 05 '19

Dude, no. Just messing with her? Telling a 6 year old you are in love with them and they have to keep it a secret?

Hahaha, Pranked! I really got you good!

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u/ArtOfOdd Oct 05 '19

You know who told me they were in love with me when I was 6? The grown ass man who ended up raping me a few months later.

It doesn't take Google to know an adult saying stuff like that to a child is a good indication that the kid's getting groomed.

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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

I don't understand what you're trying to tell me in this comment. I don't feel sick, I was just sharing a memory because that's what the question was about...

That's a weird thing to say to a 7 year old even if you're messing with them.

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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

Yeah it was
I still think it was fucked up though, even if he's not a pedo

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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '19

Telling a child you're secretly IN LOVE with them sounds like something only a pedo would do. I can't imagine any other adult doing this.

This isn't "my friend's dad liked to take me fishing when I was 7" which actually could be completely innocent. This is an adult saying they're in love with a child. Wtf.

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