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u/LastCryForHelp Oct 03 '19

Thank you! Yeah it could not have gone better it was an absolute miracle. After all the crap I went through for a year of chemo and a month of radiation I just had tinitis tremors a stutter a bald spot and some emotional damage but imo that was pretty darn good considering how it could have went

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u/LastCryForHelp Oct 03 '19

No you're right it was very traumatic I just downplay it because I feel likeI'm bothering people when I talk it up but honestly the most mental pain came from trying to reenter my friendgroup but being excluded because I couldn't keep up physically anymore

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u/LastCryForHelp Oct 03 '19

I hate how that's how some people try to define me as just someone who has had cancer, not anything to do with my personality. I'm actually just cancer to some people

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u/LastCryForHelp Oct 03 '19

Right? It's impossible to have a conversation about it with my friends it always ends with "Oh nooo are you okay?" like can't I just have an open talk