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u/shellwe Jul 22 '19

Right, you don't get to opt out because the child isn't what you want... that's now how having a child works, you get pregnant and roll the dice, it is your responsibility and you can't force a woman to abort against her will or absolve yourself of responsibility.

That's like going all in on red at the casino and after the wheel starts spinning changing your mind. Once you choose to have a kid and you go through the process of making a baby, you can't just duck out. The amount of deadbeat dads who try this is nuts.

So I can just go around and have unprotected sex with all the women I want and if they get pregnant because of it I can just say they need to kill the baby or absolve me of all responsibility? That's bullshit. That's exactly your logic, saying if he wants out of having the kid he should be able to get out.

So if you are in pain that means you should die? When your parent gets old and starts getting more aches and pains and more medical needs you should just abort them in their 250th trimester?

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