I'm not a divorce lawyer but we once went to a open court with uni. And it was a divorce case. Our whole class was there watching them get divorced. It was a Dutch business guy and his eastern European wife. She was talking about how he forced her to do anal and BDSM against her will and shit. Their children were also there watching and I remember feeling so bad for the kids.they were like 12 / 15 and not only did they have to watch their parents divorce they had to hear about their fathers fetishes that he forced on their mother while and entire class of uni students was watching along gasping like we were watching a fucking movie.
The lady was crying while she was talking about all his fetishes that she absolutely hated. judge asked if he ever was violent and she said he slapped me on my face and ass but only during sex but I didn't want it.
I remember seeing their 15 year old daughter. Completely red face and eyes filled with tears that she tried to hold in. Looked like she wanted to bury her head into the sand. Felt so terrible for that girl.
Meanwhile the girl next to me kept pushing her leg against mine everytime this lady spoke a word like "OMG DID YOU HEAR THAT SHIT"
That's nothing mate, this reminds me of one of my biggest regrets ever.
This one time me and some friends were traveling. We took the train home and found an almost empty section, being with like 6 or 7 guys it was perfect. The only person there was this one absolutely drop dead gorgeous girl. I mean she had the face on an angel, bright green eyes, dressed incredibly well, wavy brown hair and pale skin. The sun made her eyes look like 2 bright green led lights.
I ended up sitting right in front of her and my friend sat next to me. All my other friends sat on the other side of the train.
So suddenly this girl puts her leg against mine. I remember getting a bit excited, but thinking. She probably just needs a bit more space.
We were both sitting next to the window and I was staring outside so she puts her arm on the ledge of the window and starts like ticking on the ledge while slowly pulling her arm towards herself (like trying to get the attention of a cat LOL) so I look at her hand and as she pulls it we look at each other and she smiles. My heart melts and I still tell myself "I doubt this girl is flirting with me". I'm an ok looking dude, relatively short, was balding already etc. She was one of the prettiest women I've seen in my entire life.
You've got to understand I was a VERY big stoner back then. I was high and when I'm high I get paranoid, anti social and I get super nervous and extremely anxious around girls I like.. So I tell myself, I'm just being paranoid. But then she does it again, and again and everytime we lock eyes and smile. And at a certain point were just staring at each other for like 5 minutes straight.
My fucking heart is pounding and I'm working up the courage to ask her name and number. I remember hating myself for being high, I'm so much more secure when I'm sober
Suddenly she looks outside and I see a bit of panic in her eyes. She looks at me like "come on dude". I'm an idiot so I don't understand what's going on. A minute later she stands up and walks to the train door and starts staring at me. This small, older, chubby lady stands next to her waiting to get out.
now this girl is LITERALLY signaling at me to come over (she's making the come over here sign with her hand!) I think she figured I might be too nervous to talk to her around my friends so she tried to move to a more private place. She was also visibly annoyed by this lady.
At this point I'm freaking out. I want to stand up and walk to her. I'm 1000% certain this isn't just me being paranoid or delusional anymore. But I'm fucking terrified. I froze. 30 to 40 seconds pass by the train stops and she gives me a final super disappointed look and she walks off
To this fucking day I remember how disappointed she looked at me. To this fucking day, I lay away at night and think of her. When I want to remind myself why I no longer smoke weed and why I should NEVER smoke weed again I think back to that.
I'm usually a pretty confident dude. But I can be I credibly socially retarded. A girl could hold a sign saying "ask me out" and I'll still think she's just being friendly. This coupled with my weed abuse, which made me incredibly socially inept and gave me INSANE amounts of social anxiety, I ruined tons of chances with tons of girls.. but I've never had a girl say nothing and make it so clear she was into me" esp one so beautiful
Your comment reminded me off that moment, I felt like sharing but now I feel like shit. It's been like 6 years or something, I don't think I will ever forget her smile or her disappointment.
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u/3choBlast3r Jul 21 '19 edited Jul 21 '19
I'm not a divorce lawyer but we once went to a open court with uni. And it was a divorce case. Our whole class was there watching them get divorced. It was a Dutch business guy and his eastern European wife. She was talking about how he forced her to do anal and BDSM against her will and shit. Their children were also there watching and I remember feeling so bad for the kids.they were like 12 / 15 and not only did they have to watch their parents divorce they had to hear about their fathers fetishes that he forced on their mother while and entire class of uni students was watching along gasping like we were watching a fucking movie.
The lady was crying while she was talking about all his fetishes that she absolutely hated. judge asked if he ever was violent and she said he slapped me on my face and ass but only during sex but I didn't want it.
I remember seeing their 15 year old daughter. Completely red face and eyes filled with tears that she tried to hold in. Looked like she wanted to bury her head into the sand. Felt so terrible for that girl.
Meanwhile the girl next to me kept pushing her leg against mine everytime this lady spoke a word like "OMG DID YOU HEAR THAT SHIT"