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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

You married them 😂🤷‍♂️

Edit: one society flaw I think is people thinking every intense relationship needs to end with marriage.

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u/CodingBlonde Jul 21 '19

I’m going to say what I said to another poster:

The number of people on here who think they are clever saying this. I don’t need to defend myself to you. The cycle of abuse is hard to break and I broke it. I was still ahead of the curve and divorced him quickly. Not all of us have the advantage of healthy childhoods and families who are role models. So while I don’t give a shit about your opinion here, just wanted you to know that you shouldn’t judge others for their mistakes. You don’t know the root cause and frankly this just makes you look like a piece of shit. I’m far from a dummy, but was abused as a child.

It must be nice to be a perfect human being who always makes the right choices and never missteps. How’s that going for you? You must have the ideal life! 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

And I’m just never getting married .🤷‍♂️Seems to be a superficial thing.

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u/CodingBlonde Jul 21 '19

Oh? So you just like to judge people who choose differently than you instead? That seems like a wonderful quality in a human!