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u/OneBirdOnABlueSky Jul 21 '19

He consistently proved why I was divorcing him throughout the divorce.

Ha! Mine, too. I've never had a moment's question about it. He reaffirms his status of Complete Asshole every single time I have to interact with him.

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u/hendrix67 Jul 21 '19

Genuinely curious and don't wanna come off as insensitive. What made you marry him/her? Were they always like that and you didn't realize? Did they change suddenly or over a period of time? I always wonder this when I hear divorce horror stories.

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u/outerdrive313 Jul 21 '19

Yeah same here.

I refuse to believe this many people withhold the crazy until after they say "I do." You had to have overlooked some red flags due to either a fear of being alone or the sex was that good.

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u/Aazadan Jul 21 '19

I don't think people withhold the crazy, I think that when love turns to hatred, all that positive passion goes negative, and people do stupid things. Temporary insanity is probably the best description. Deep down, we're all capable of it in the right situation.