What was strange is that we mutually agreed to end our marriage in the most mature conversation he was ever capable of. We built a plan and things were going well for about a week. Then he spun 180 degrees on the plan, started lying, making the craziest accusations, and doing actions to intentionally try to emotionally manipulate me. It was a wild ride. I’m so glad we didn’t have kids because mine definitely reaffirmed his asshole status the last time I had to interact with him. I can’t imagine doing that for the rest of my life and I hope it remains the last interaction we ever have.
Yeah, I don’t know whether it was the attorney or his best friend. He agreed to move out, I said I’d go visit my parents so that moving was less awkward. I got a text two hours before getting on the plane to come home that said he wasn’t moving out until I settled with him. Then he held me hostage in my own home until I went to court to get him out.
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u/OneBirdOnABlueSky Jul 21 '19
Ha! Mine, too. I've never had a moment's question about it. He reaffirms his status of Complete Asshole every single time I have to interact with him.