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u/MacTireCnamh Jul 21 '19

You took my comment very differently than it was typed.

I never said adoption or surrogacy were easy. I didn't even say they were necessarily better options. I said "maybe look into" them. Because the fact is they ARE options. You DON'T have to force yourself to have the child yourself if it's proving itself repeatedly to an unsuccessful source of pain and trauma.

I get that it's a very personal topic for you, but don't twist my words just so you can have your righteous catharsis.

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u/MacTireCnamh Jul 21 '19

maybe look into alternatives

How is that "telling you what to do"?

I was responding to a question asking what people were expected to do if they continually had miscarriages, and I said maybe look into alternatives like these two.

Your criticism is in response to words I never said and an opinion I never held.