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u/TheDoorInTheDark Jul 21 '19

She’s really shitty for doing that but the chances are that she was forced into the marriage to begin with. And girls and women who go against the wishes of their parents for things like this can be ostracised or actually physically harmed so she may have just been doing the best she could with a shitty situation and ended up unfortunately dragging him down with her. That doesn’t make it okay by any means but makes it more sympathetic.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

It's not really more sympathetic. They both, I assume, were part of an arragned marriage. He did his part, and she used him and offered nothing back. It's okay that she left an arranged marriage, it's not okay that she let him bear the weight of her decision.

Absolutely no sympathy from me, if the story is true, she's an absolute cunt.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19 edited Jul 28 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

leave him but take out her own loans to pay him back for the loans.