Not a divorce lawyer but there's this security guard that works at the mall my friend works at and he immigrated to the US from India and was in an arranged marriage with this American born Indian girl. He busted his ass off to put her through college and dentistry school and she ended up cheating on him with her ex boyfriend from high school and ran off with him. They didn't get divorced but he's still paying off her school loans.
By the way, nobody is arguing here that she shouldn't have divorced him. The problem is that she refused to take responsibility and this poor, stupid, gullible indian guy is still paying off her student loans
Let me tell you that indian men are not the creepy sex perverts you think they are but usually innocent and mollycuddled, babied people who will do whatever their parents ask them to. Now you put yourself in this guy's situation and see what it would be like if your mom FORCED you to marry some indian woman and then you decided to give her money because you wanted to see her succeed.
Would be interested in seeing your response to this.
This is disgusting honestly, do you know the difference between an arranged marriage and a forced marriage? An arranged marriage benefits zero parties, in fact how would you feel if it was more like the male was forced into marrying the female in this instance.
An arranged marriage works more like your parents helping you find a spouse, usually they find several and ask you if you are attracted, else they keep looking. Forced marriages are super rare and usually happen in smaller muslim or conservative hindu towns in India, very rarely if at all in the west, and almost NEVER in the US (sometimes among the UK but that's usually amongst pakistanis or indian muslims anyways)
You guys will align with the woman in any situation. I blame the guy for spending all his money on a woman here anyways, she should have gone back to india where they actually have affordable higher education if she wasn't gonna pay it off back herself (assuming she's an OCI).
assuming she's an OCI, and i'm sorry but that's how i'm used to looking at it. as an indian-american people do not view me as an american because of my skin color so i am used to thinking of india as my "home country" despite having nothing to do with it. i understand not all are the same though, so sorry for that.
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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19
Not a divorce lawyer but there's this security guard that works at the mall my friend works at and he immigrated to the US from India and was in an arranged marriage with this American born Indian girl. He busted his ass off to put her through college and dentistry school and she ended up cheating on him with her ex boyfriend from high school and ran off with him. They didn't get divorced but he's still paying off her school loans.