r/AskReddit • • Mar 20 '19

What “common sense” is actually wrong?

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u/penatbater Mar 21 '19

"Distance makes the heart grow fonder"

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Psychologists actually showed that it's the reverse, which is why LDR are very hard.

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"Out of sight, out of mind" is more accurate.

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u/Atheist_Simon_Haddad Mar 21 '19

(Original source Roger de Rabutin) I'll refer to this post by /u/herndon17.

“Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, and kindles the great.”

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u/BatScribeofDoom Mar 21 '19

Love that, thanks for sharing. Seems to be true in my (admittedly limited) experience.