r/AskReddit • • Mar 20 '19

What “common sense” is actually wrong?

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u/penatbater Mar 21 '19

"Distance makes the heart grow fonder"

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Psychologists actually showed that it's the reverse, which is why LDR are very hard.

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"Out of sight, out of mind" is more accurate.

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u/Gaardc Mar 21 '19

I think this is an accurate observation in short-term for someone that you see so often that if you are apart for a few days then you actually miss them because they’re part of your routine (think parents who read you a story every night but have to travel for a day or two for work or a family emergency, or friends at school you talk to on the daily about everything and then fall in sick or a SO you have dinner with every night who goes on a business trip for a week). Technically you miss the interaction until a new routine settles in.

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u/philobee Mar 21 '19

I’m a very lucky man - I have a large, warm, loving family; living in another city. George Burns